Acha Etiendem

Wow! Did you really come to my blog? Let's try to get you to stick around by engaging our minds. If you had wished for one thing more than anything else, what would that be? For me, it should come as no surprise that it is my time. Okay! Maybe you didn't know that, but for those who know me, it's my time. The COVID-19 pandemic really left a lasting impact on many. For me, it was a moment of deep soul-searching; I went into it being upset that I missed several planned trips, only to embark on a new trip like no other. I emerged as a different person, seeing the world as a sort of puzzle with "time-freedom" as the perfect outcome of fitting the pieces together. A true milestone worth pursuing. And that brings me to the topic of this episode, which is simply what my 2007 Toyota Camry represents. It just clocked 250,000 miles and is still running smoothly. What a milestone! Do you know what a car made in 2007 with 250,000 miles on it usually looks like? I don't kn...

Wow! I'm only now realizing how long it's been since I last posted. Before we start, I'd like to check in with you and see how those New Year's resolutions are going. If you haven't kept many, trust me, you're not alone lol. However, I must say, the fact that there are so many is probably the problem. I guess it's true what they say: "always start small." As for me, I’m a little sad that I haven't read as much as I would have loved to, but I'm glad to be kicking it in other areas. Okay! Enough checking in already. Let's get to the matter at hand and "yield" something. Yield is certainly an ambiguous word. You can look at it as I just did in the last sentence of the last paragraph. However, I want to look at it in terms of markets. I know what you're thinking; here he goes again. Sorry to disappoint you, but this is how I see the world because markets mean more and have a greater impact on our lives than most of us are awar...

This year is moving really fast. I hope yours is going according to plan; if not, don't give in to frustration. Remember, someone is always fighting a harder battle. This is not to undermine yours, but rather to say that one must keep going. A famous quote says, "Time heals all wounds." This is very true, and I spoke indirectly about this in my last post. Time is our best bet for becoming, achieving, and bringing to life that which is within us.                                                                       “ The family is the test of freedom, because the family is the only thing that the free man makes for himself and by himself.” –Gilbert Chesterton I could give thousands of examples to illustrate this simple yet powerful concept. It is one of those naturally occurring laws of nature that we subtly disrega...

Hey there, and welcome to this episode where I reflect on a question I first asked myself five years ago: Why live a life of mediocrity ? In light of the global market chaos and panic, where even what many considered safe, like gold , lost so much value in one day, I once again reflected on that question. It’s not because I’ve arrived at my destination, but because I found peace when others trembled. Do you live a life of mediocrity? Well, as you answer, sit still because this one is long........ It was the Christmas season, December 2019, and my friend and I had just separated as he headed back to Portsmouth while I remained at a cafe reading a book in York Way, London . My phone rang; it was my boss calling from another country while I was on a short vacation. She was calling to ask when I would be coming back. This was surprising to me because she knew I was on vacation. I was heading back the next day, but all through that night, I kept wondering why I couldn't even spend enoug...

Hey there, thank you or nkongte (in my language) for tuning in. I see you enjoy uncomfortable conversations, so let’s get uncomfortable, shall we? Since I already covered this money topic three years ago, this will serve as a continuation and a deeper look into the subject. Of course, a link is available if you’d like to revisit my raw take on money. For now, I want to pivot toward the crucial role played by the U.S. military . But before that, let me lay the foundation for this episode. Read on, please. Photo credits: VoxEU Column International Finance At the end of the day, money is a tool that helps you receive or give value. You can read about my previous ( here ) money talk for more context. Please don’t misunderstand me when I mention value. I know time is also another way of giving value. For example, someone recently told me they were too busy to see me. In that sense, time becomes a form of value exchange, where my value is not worth their time. This is also why a caregive...

Hey there! How's the new year been for you? hopefully yours is as productive as mine has been, and I hope this momentum continues. Let's talk empathy, shall we?  Empathy ensures we are able to understand why individuals and groups of people act in a certain way. It doesn't have to be about agreeing with certain actions, but more about understanding where some people are coming from. It helps our clarity and gives us a better way to approach situations or perhaps be more self‑aware. I'm saying this because, on the surface level, it makes perfect sense to nurse hate and resentment with events such as land grabs. The US's push to acquire Greenland, Russia's advances in Ukraine, China's push to claim Taiwan, Israel's advances in the West Bank, and a whole host of others. These are not only matters of today but trends that have existed since the beginning of time, and literally a key characteristic of living organisms. When you go through taxonomic classifica...